朋友圈历经挫折的经典人生感悟，现实不矫情，发人深省！

一、你很累，很苦的时候，还要咬牙坚持着，因为你的身后还有一个需要你的家。所有的难处自己一个人扛着。这就是责任。活得不快乐，本质上源于自己的无能。世上的事，有顺，有逆；人生的情，有喜，有悲。顺境，不要得意，狂妄傲慢，喜悦能够持续；逆境，不要气馁，绝望悲戚，事情还有转机。人生路上，无论怎样，我们都要走下去。

When you are tired and bitter, you have to grind your teeth and stick to it, because there is still a home behind you that needs you. All the difficulties are carried by oneself. This is responsibility. To live unhappily is essentially due to one's own incompetence. Everything in the world has its ups and downs; the feeling of life has its joys and sorrows. Prosperity, not complacency, arrogance, joy can continue; adversity, not discouraged, despair, sadness, things have a turning point. On the way of life, no matter what, we must go on.

二、一个人失恋，全世界失眠。一个人发呆，一个人独白。总有一天，我会唱歌给你听，让你听得撕心裂肺，让你听得如痴如醉。有的时候我很感谢生活，但更多的时候我恨生活，生活能把每个人推到巅峰一样会把每个人推向地狱。

One person is lovelorn, the whole world is insomniac. A person in a daze, a person in a monologue. Someday, I will sing to you, so that you can hear heartbreak, so that you can listen like a drunk. Sometimes I am grateful for life, but more often I hate life. Life can push everyone to the top and push everyone to hell.

三、没事就想想如何致富吧，别总在感情的世界里伤春悲秋，捏在手心的钱永远要比那抓不住的心踏实。当你的心真的在痛，眼泪快要流下来的时候，那就赶快抬头看看，这片曾经属于我们的天空；当天依旧是那么的广阔，云依旧那么的潇洒，那就不应该哭，因为我的离去，并没有带走你的世界。

Think about how to get rich. Don't always be sad about spring and autumn in the emotional world. The money you hold in your hand is always more solid than that you can't grasp. When your heart is really in pain and your tears are about to flow down, look up and see the sky that once belonged to us. If the sky is still so vast and the clouds are still so natural, you should not cry because my leaving has not taken away your world.

四、世上最可悲的事是当过去深爱你的那个人成为你的一切之时，你却对她不再重要了。稻草人挺好，不悲，不喜，不忧，尽情拥抱太阳，与大树为伴。

The saddest thing in the world is that when the person who loved you in the past becomes everything to you, you are no longer important to her. Scarecrow is very good, not sad, not happy, not worried, enjoy embracing the sun, with the trees.

五、“你看那个人，好奇怪哟，像一条狗”。像条狗的人，是放弃了人间的男女情欢，无欲无念兢兢业业走在西天取经路上的至尊宝。他如你我这般，收起了脾气火气不再任性淘气，只顾奔波职场。人生百年，谁不曾大闹天宫，谁不曾头上紧箍，谁不曾爱上层楼，谁不曾孤单上路。"Look at that man, curious, like a dog." A man like a dog is the supreme treasure of abandoning the love and happiness of men and women in the world and walking conscientiously and willlessly on the road of taking Sutras in the west. Like you and me, he put aside his temper and stopped being wilful and naughty, and just went to work. In a hundred years of life, no one has ever made a great disturbance in the Heaven Palace, no one has ever been tied up on his head, no one has ever fallen in love with upstairs, and no one has ever gone on the road alone.

六、生命中总有一些事会错过，总有一些人会忘记，总有一些日子会忽略，但是有一个日子绝对不能忘，有一个人绝不能错过，祝你平安夜平安，圣诞快乐无边；遇见你之后，我的伟大抱负和一腔热血，都变成黄昏与你归家走在小路上的简单愿望。There are always some things in life that will be missed, there are always some people who will forget, there are always some days that will be ignored, but there is a day that must not be forgotten, there is a person who must not miss, wish you a safe Christmas Eve, a merry Christmas, after meeting you, my great ambition and a cavity of blood, have become the twilight and your simple wish to go home on the path.

七、虽然说强扭的瓜不甜，但有时候我并不在乎它甜不甜，我只想把它扭下来，扭下来我就开心了。，'世界上最遥远的距离，不是生与死，而是我就站在你面前，而你却不知道我爱你。'可是知道又怎样呢?她不在了，只有去墓碑前哭无声岁月吗?十二月，不曾有过奇迹，超能力，也无法挽回已逝的人们。承诺又如何，不会让任何人伤我的心，而你，却深深伤害到我。我爱的人从来就是你，梦中梦终于碎了。Although the strong melon is not sweet, sometimes I don't care whether it is sweet or not. I just want to twist it off and I'm happy. The furthest distance in the world is not between life and death, but when I stand in front of you and you don't know that I love you. & Am; 39; But what do you know? She's gone, only to go to the tombstone and cry silently for years? In December, there was no miracle, no superpower, no way to save the dead. What about the promise, it won't let anybody hurt my heart, but you hurt me deeply. The person I love has always been you. The dream is broken at last.

八、生活告诉我们，这个世界从来不存在完美的人和事，过于完美的感情，只发生在童话和想象中，现实的常态，除了平淡，就是千疮百孔与劫后重生。Life tells us that there are never perfect people and things in the world, and that too perfect feelings only occur in fairy tales and imaginations. The normal reality, apart from being plain, is full of holes and rebirth after disaster.

九、要学会接受命的残缺和悲哀，然后，心平气和。因为，这就是人生。起早摸黑，忙忙碌碌，就这样一天一天地过着重复的生活…你会发现，只会有人问你挣多少钱？却很少有人问你累不累？开不开心？生活就是这样，别人只看结果，自己独撑过程。有时你会觉得莫名的累，身累？心累？但所有的累只能一笑而过。早安！Learn to accept the incompleteness and sadness of life, and then be calm. Because this is life. Get up early and get dark, busy, and live a repetitive life day by day. You will find that only people ask you how much money you earn. But few people ask you if you are tired? Are you happy? Life is like this. Others only look at the results and support the process by themselves. Sometimes you feel inexplicably tired, tired? Heart tired? But all tiredness can only be laughed off. Good morning!

十、所谓生活，放下年少的梦，捡起现实的俗。所以很多刚刚恋爱的人，尤其是女生不想过早的发生性关系，又不好意思拒绝男生的邀约，有些时候会很纠结。The so-called life, put down the young dream, pick up the reality of vulgarity. So many people who have just fallen in love, especially girls, do not want to have sex prematurely, and they are embarrassed to refuse the invitation of boys, sometimes they will be very entangled.

十一、当你饿的时候，有的人会把馒头分给你一半，这是友情，有的人会把馒头让给你先吃，这是爱情，有的人会把馒头全给你，这是亲情，有的人会把馒头藏了起来，对你说他也饿，这就是社会。When you are hungry, some people will give you half of the steamed bread, which is friendship, some people will give you steamed bread to eat first, this is love, some people will give you all the steamed bread, this is family affection, some people will hide the steamed bread, tell you that he is hungry, this is society.

十二、永远不要忘了，当初你为什么选择做一件事情，你最初的那份干劲，那份激情，永远都不要让它减退，如果它正在减退，说明你也即将出局。没有什么可以一夜暴富，只有脚踏实地坚持着你才会成功，急功近利的也只会出局。永远保持当初的那份积极和热情。不忘初心，方得始终！Never forget, why did you choose to do something at the beginning, your original energy, passion, never let it fade, if it is fading, that means you will be out. Nothing can make a fortune overnight. You can only succeed if you keep your feet on the ground. You can only get out if you are eager for quick success and instant benefit. Always keep the original enthusiasm and enthusiasm. Never forget why you started, and your mission can be accomplished.

十三、人生如月，月满则亏，凡事岂能都尽人意，但求于心无愧。木已成舟便要顺其自然。心容易满足，你才会感觉幸福，欢乐与悲哀是伴生的，欢乐有度会欢乐常伴。Life is like a moon, but when the moon is full, it loses. How can everything be satisfactory, but with a clear conscience? When a boat is built, let nature take its course. The heart is easy to satisfy, you will feel happy, joy and sorrow are accompanied, joy will be accompanied by joy at some time.

十四、纸质阅读是一种习惯，一杯茶，坐在沙发上，或者就像小资的人会在雨天读书，这不是矫情，确实是生活的一种诗意。一样是阅读，它是有封面的，有厚度的，会发黄的，希望纸质阅读永远流传。Paper reading is a habit, a cup of tea, sitting on the sofa, or like a petty bourgeoisie who will read in the rain, it is not artificial, it is indeed a kind of poetry of life. The same is reading. It has a cover, a thickness, and will be yellow. I hope that paper reading will be spread forever.

十五、第一遇注定了会有第二遇是怪相遇决定了悲剧还是怪执着或无情翻山越岭只为了心中的那个身影跋山涉水只换来最后的一瞬欢一切皆是错谁知身不由己心亦不由己The first encounter is doomed to have the second encounter. Whether the tragedy is decided by the strange encounter, or whether the tragedy is determined by the strange persistence or ruthlessness of climbing mountains and mountains just for the figure in the heart, trudging mountains and rivers, only for the last moment of joy. Everything is wrong. Who knows himself or herself.

十六、人生，总有许多沟坎需要跨越;岁月，总有许多遗憾需要弥补;生命，总有许多迷茫需要领悟。痛并快乐着，思索并追寻着，彩虹总在风雨后。Life, there are always many gullies to cross; years, there are always many regrets to make up for; life, there are always many confused need to understand. Pain and happiness, thinking and pursuing, rainbow always after the storm.

十七、人生，不管是不平，还是愧疚，或是缺憾，不圆满才是真实的人生。时间不回头，我们却需要有昂扬的斗志，才能承受生活的刁难，需要带着足够的勇气，勇敢穿透现实的迷障。Life, whether it is unfair, guilty, or regretful, is not perfect is the real life. Time does not turn back, but we need to have a high spirit of struggle, to withstand the difficulties of life, need to take enough courage, brave through the obstacles of reality.

十八、永远不要在痛苦的时候做决定，否则你以后一定会后悔。 让一段关系保持长久的方法就是你走你的路，我过我的桥，我们在各自的生活里忙碌，但是你要相信，总有一天我们会不期而遇，停下来寒暄几句或是给彼此一个大大的拥抱，充电之后继续好好生活，随心所欲，不逾矩。Never make a decision when you are in pain, or you will regret it later. The way to keep a relationship going for a long time is to walk your way. I cross my bridge. We are busy in our respective lives. But you have to believe that one day we will meet unexpectedly, stop to greet each other or give each other a big hug. After recharging, we will continue to live a good life and do what we want.

十九、生活的苦涩不是说出来的，不管你是以什么身份，什么年龄段，生活给予的压力都太大。我永远相信只要永不放弃，我们还是有机会的。The bitterness of life is not to say, no matter what status you are, what age, life gives too much pressure. I always believe that as long as we never give up, we still have a chance.

二十、这世界上只要有梦想，只要不断努力，只要不断学习，不管你长得如何，不管是这样，还是那样，男人的长相往往和他的的才华成反比。今天很残酷，明天更残酷，后天很美好，但绝对大部分是死在明天晚上，所以每个人不要放弃今天。In this world, as long as you have dreams, as long as you keep working hard, as long as you keep learning, no matter how you look, no matter what it is, or so, a man's appearance is often inversely proportional to his talent. Today is very cruel, tomorrow is more cruel, the day after tomorrow is very beautiful, but absolutely most of them die tomorrow night, so everyone should not give up today.

二十一、如果能毫不费力的做到，没有人会选择拖延。思念是一种流泪的幸福。此生，你是我最美的相遇，因为太美，所以心碎。因为爱你，我忘记了自己。因为爱你，我不懂得如何安放自己；因为爱你，我的指尖忧伤了纸笺。左手忧愁，右手甜蜜。If you can do it effortlessly, no one will choose to delay. Missing is a kind of happiness in tears. This life, you are my most beautiful encounter, because too beautiful, so heartbroken. Because I love you, I forget myself. Because I love you, I don't know how to place myself; because I love you, my fingertips are sad. The left hand is sad, the right hand is sweet.

二十二、历经风雨，才能看透人心真假；患难与共，才能领悟感情冷暖。热情的未必长情，淡然的未必漠然。你的笑声，永远是我最好的安眠药。我要感谢过去让我遇到了你，不论前方有多长，未来只要有你一切都好。Only by going through storms can we see through the truth of people's hearts; only by sharing weal and woe Can we comprehend the warmth and coldness of feelings. Passionate may not be affectionate, indifferent may not be indifferent. Your laughter is always my best sleeping pill. I want to thank the past for letting me meet you, no matter how long ahead, as long as you have everything in the future.